Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Why I Work To Save Marriages
On a daily basis, I get emails that are, well, less than polite. Most demand I give them my product for free, some doubt my sincerity. A few accuse my of being a con. As my wife noted years ago, "you have to have tougher skin than I to do this." And in the years on the internet, I have developed some toughness. Still, at some point, anyone gets tired of emails. I do recognize that people write emails in ways they would never write or communicate otherwise. I take that into account. However, I decided I would be clear about this.
My name is Lee Baucom, and I am here to save marriages. That is it. I am not trying to become a millionaire off of other people's pain. In fact, I live in the same house we have lived in for 10 years. I get up every day and go to work.
So, for anyone thinking that I am some "internet millionaire," sitting on a beach and sipping cool drinks, please tell that to my bank account!
Some have accused me of being an opportunist. That certainly misses the fact that after 4 years of college, I attended almost 9 years of graduate school, along with 6 years of clinical training. My training was all about marriage and family therapy. This is a field I have worked in for almost 20 years.
Why, then, do I do this? Because I believe in marriage. I believe that marriages are the stability of society, the backbone of successful families. Whenever I hear people saying that divorce is not harmful to children, I know they are quoting research. But they fail to note that much of that research has been reexamined and found flawed and incorrect.
How can children not be affected when someone takes everything they have known about love and security, and torn it in half? And since I get to spend my days with people in pain, I hear about that pain on a daily basis.
Long ago, I decided we can either work to heal the deep wounds, or we can be preventative. And fixing marriages, saving a marriage, is preventative. Save a marriage, save a family.
However, I have never believed that you simply stay married to stay married. You stay married and build a marriage that is life-giving, loving, and supportive. It is not enough just to prevent a divorce, which is why I don't call my program Stop The Divorce. I am out to save a marriage, make it something worth treasuring.
So why don't I give away my information for free (actually, I do, with a free marriage ecourse)? Because generally speaking, you get what you pay for. And because there are many, many costs to provide this service (Google sends me a present every Christmas for all the money I pay them for advertising!).
The same people who accuse me of not giving away the information no doubt pay for a doctor's services, an attorney's services, maybe even an accountant's services. That is the way our society works.
I am also aware the the cost of my information is far less than even a decent meal out, probably less than 1/2 the cost of most people's cell phone bills, equal to maybe 10 drinks at Starbucks, a couple of six-packs of beer, far less than a month of cable -- all to save a marriage! Really, I have begun to see it about 99% of the time being about priorities.
So I can promise you this: I am not getting rich off this. I do this because I believe in marriages. I am here to help people save their marriages. Care to join me?
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More marriage saving information can be found in my ebook, SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE HERE.
My name is Lee Baucom, and I am here to save marriages. That is it. I am not trying to become a millionaire off of other people's pain. In fact, I live in the same house we have lived in for 10 years. I get up every day and go to work.
So, for anyone thinking that I am some "internet millionaire," sitting on a beach and sipping cool drinks, please tell that to my bank account!
Some have accused me of being an opportunist. That certainly misses the fact that after 4 years of college, I attended almost 9 years of graduate school, along with 6 years of clinical training. My training was all about marriage and family therapy. This is a field I have worked in for almost 20 years.
Why, then, do I do this? Because I believe in marriage. I believe that marriages are the stability of society, the backbone of successful families. Whenever I hear people saying that divorce is not harmful to children, I know they are quoting research. But they fail to note that much of that research has been reexamined and found flawed and incorrect.
How can children not be affected when someone takes everything they have known about love and security, and torn it in half? And since I get to spend my days with people in pain, I hear about that pain on a daily basis.
Long ago, I decided we can either work to heal the deep wounds, or we can be preventative. And fixing marriages, saving a marriage, is preventative. Save a marriage, save a family.
However, I have never believed that you simply stay married to stay married. You stay married and build a marriage that is life-giving, loving, and supportive. It is not enough just to prevent a divorce, which is why I don't call my program Stop The Divorce. I am out to save a marriage, make it something worth treasuring.
So why don't I give away my information for free (actually, I do, with a free marriage ecourse)? Because generally speaking, you get what you pay for. And because there are many, many costs to provide this service (Google sends me a present every Christmas for all the money I pay them for advertising!).
The same people who accuse me of not giving away the information no doubt pay for a doctor's services, an attorney's services, maybe even an accountant's services. That is the way our society works.
I am also aware the the cost of my information is far less than even a decent meal out, probably less than 1/2 the cost of most people's cell phone bills, equal to maybe 10 drinks at Starbucks, a couple of six-packs of beer, far less than a month of cable -- all to save a marriage! Really, I have begun to see it about 99% of the time being about priorities.
So I can promise you this: I am not getting rich off this. I do this because I believe in marriages. I am here to help people save their marriages. Care to join me?
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More marriage saving information can be found in my ebook, SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE HERE.
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Tuesday, November 18, 2008
The Rumor: I Am Who I Say I Am!
OK, today I decided to make a personal response. I have read in several forums that there is a belief that I am the same person as several other ebook authors. In other words, there is a belief that I am a pseudonym.
Believe me when I tell you, I am not. I am Lee Baucom. That is the name my parents gave me, and I have never written anything on marriage under any other name.
Today, I read two posts, believing I was the same person as TW Jackson. That is the "author" of The Magic of Making Up, and the true author is Travis Sego, an internet marketer. So, some folks are correct in assuming there is a pseudonym in play. Trouble is, it ain't me!
Let me show you a picture of me and my family.
What this points to is how cynical we all have become by what is on the internet. We have begun to doubt that anyone is who they say they are. I see it everyday, when you can make yourself into whatever image you wish online. Generally speaking, people can hide behind a facade.
I have worked hard to be transparent. I have a phone number on my website (502-802-4823, so call and see if it is not MY voicemail), and an address (4949 Brownsboro Rd., Suite 147, Louisville, KY 40222 -- feel free to write). I can't promise I can answer every phone call in person, or respond to every email or regular mail. But I can promise, I am Lee Baucom, and that is the only person I have ever been.
Just wanted to clear that up! Thanks for reading.
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More marriage saving information can be found in my ebook, available by CLICKING HERE.
Believe me when I tell you, I am not. I am Lee Baucom. That is the name my parents gave me, and I have never written anything on marriage under any other name.
Today, I read two posts, believing I was the same person as TW Jackson. That is the "author" of The Magic of Making Up, and the true author is Travis Sego, an internet marketer. So, some folks are correct in assuming there is a pseudonym in play. Trouble is, it ain't me!
Let me show you a picture of me and my family.
What this points to is how cynical we all have become by what is on the internet. We have begun to doubt that anyone is who they say they are. I see it everyday, when you can make yourself into whatever image you wish online. Generally speaking, people can hide behind a facade.
I have worked hard to be transparent. I have a phone number on my website (502-802-4823, so call and see if it is not MY voicemail), and an address (4949 Brownsboro Rd., Suite 147, Louisville, KY 40222 -- feel free to write). I can't promise I can answer every phone call in person, or respond to every email or regular mail. But I can promise, I am Lee Baucom, and that is the only person I have ever been.
Just wanted to clear that up! Thanks for reading.
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More marriage saving information can be found in my ebook, available by CLICKING HERE.
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