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Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
Me Tell You About Kelly and Greg...
I first met Kelly, she and her husband, Greg,
were literally driving to the
attorney's office to sign their divorce papers
when they decided to stop at my office!
were ready to end their marriage of 14 years.
For some time. . . years actually. . . neither had
been happy. There had been attempts to change,
but things always fell apart.
It had been years since either Kelly or Greg felt
good about their relationship.
fact, for some time, they had stayed together
just for the kids.
sound familiar to you?
was much sleeping on the couch and in the spare
were constantly battling over the smallest issue
-- which only led to bigger issues.
and yelling were an almost everyday thing.
They both desperately wanted to be accepted and loved,
but neither felt it. The more each tried, it
seemed the further they moved apart.
They had tried therapy, self-help books, seminars. But
nothing seemed to make a difference.
seemed as if they were stuck in a vicious cycle.
They knew they needed to change things in
their relationship...but they just didn't know
not going to try and convince you that I was able
to undo years of fighting, struggling and
disappointment in a day. But, with what they
learned in my office that day, they decided
to put their impending divorce "on hold."
few weeks, there was a dramatic
transformation in their marriage...
were no angry arguments that went nowhere.
was no "living like roommates" or sleeping on
was no more name-calling or tearing-down of each
previously sexless, marriage saw sparks of true
pleasure and intimacy again.
Kelly called to
invite me to their anniversary
and "re-commitment" ceremony!
marriage therapists are not trained to be
receive their training in traditional, individual
therapy, and add marital counseling to
their practice... after the fact.
other words, most marriage therapists have little
expertise in helping a troubled marriage.
when they do offer marital counseling, they are,
usually, applying outdated, ineffective
strategies that were never intended to help truly
is why the best marriage counselors see
a success rate of only 20%. . . if a medical
procedure was that risky. . .
it would be outlawed!
know from experience, because I too was
frustrated with such a low rate of success. I
sincerely desired to help my clients to save
their marriages. But, the techniques
and strategies I learned in school seemed to be
making things worse!
I realized that "traditional" methods of marriage
therapy don't work, I determined to find and
create strategies, techniques and methods that do
led me to abandon much of the "old school" ideas
about how to help troubled couples...and so should
watch this video on why "Marital Therapy" can be
destructive to your situation!
you can begin your journey toward saving your
marriage, you need to stop buying into
The Four Most Damaging Myths About Saving Your
Do you believe any of
4 Most Damaging Myths About
Saving Your Marriage...
You Need To Learn More
new communication skills will not
you how to communicate better, if
your marriage is truly
troubled, will only give you and
your spouse the ability to
fight more effectively!
many cases, improving "communication
skills" only creates more
damage and accelerates the
deterioration of the relationship.
is only one "path" from
the brink of divorce to
other programs assume there
is only one "path" back to
discovered there are
8 distinct paths! And,
each "path" must be addressed
is helpful at one stage
can be destructive, or at
least counterproductive, at
I have created a
unique path for each stage
that resolves the crisis best.
paths have been tested
and retested, and proven
successful for hundreds in my
will learn how to determine
exactly which stage of
marriage crisis you are facing.
After you do this, you are
infinitely better prepared to move
forward and begin the healing
can't start saving your marriage
if your spouse isn't interested.
a marriage crisis is in
full swing, it sometimes takes
awhile for the other spouse to
respond. But, this does not
mean that you can't save your
techniques and approach work. .
. even if your spouse has already
"given up. "
strategies have been
called "relationship Judo."
will learn how to use
the negative energy in your
relationship to turn your
may be the most damaging myth
my experience, many people
procrastinate and hope that things
will get "just work
rarely, if ever,
happens. You already know
that! That is the reason you
are at this site. You are
ready to take action!
you do not take action, the
negative momentum of the
relationship moves against you and
before you know it, the
relationship is too far gone.
is critical that you start
the process of saving your
marriage now. . . before
things spiral into a place that is
Is Capable of
Transforming Their Relationship
as it may seem, I have created techniques which
transform relationships... even when only
one person is trying!
typical client is a spouse that wants to save
their relationship when their partner has already
therapists work from the assumption that, if only
one person wanted to work on the relationship, it
was impossible to fix.
don't approach marriage crises this way. I
approach them like an algebra equation. If one side of
the equation is changed, the other side must
my clients have achieved an 89.7% success
rate. . . even if only one spouse
starts the process! (Findings based on
surveys. Individual results can vary.)
With Kelly and Greg, it was Kelly who started the
process. She found me on the internet ,
downloaded Save the Marriage and began
the process of saving the marriage. . . by
was still bent on a divorce, but Kelly still had
hope. . . and took action.
Fairly quickly, Greg was less insistent on the
divorce, but still assumed it was their only
He agreed to spend that hour with me, in person.
. . leaving their divorce attorneys waiting.
may be wondering. . ."When Is Saving The
have witnessed relationships come back to life
after affairs, bankruptcies, dishonesty,
deception and mid-life crises,and just about any
after couple have proven that it is possible to
change a relationship and rescue, just about,
any marriage from the edge of destruction.
couples have not just avoided divorce. They have
transformed the marriages into
something wonderful. . . something better than
they had dreamed possible.
Of A Marital Crisis
marriage crisis appears overnight.
the crisis builds slowly over time. One person
is, usually, caught completely off-guard. . .
not realizing there even was a problem. The other
claims that he or she is tired of trying and
trying. . . with no change. . . and has "given up."
You see, the real damage is done when one
person needs and expects something to change, but
the other person is preserving the exact same
things. For example, there is often a desire for a
shift in the power structure of the relationship,
but one person resists making any change. The
other person who wants the change becomes more and
This leads to a pattern where one spouse suddenly
announces that the marriage is over, and the
other spouse is unaware that there even was
I had a dime for every time I was told, "I
thought everything was fine, until my spouse
asked for a divorce". . .
the "not knowing" has been translated into "not
caring" by the dissatisfied partner and seems to
provide proof (for someone looking for proof) that the
marriage is over.
More marriages die from neglect than anything else.
Often, it is simply a matter of life getting in
the way. Strangely, something as important as
marriage gets ignored. More than that, the
relationship shifts from suffering with neglect
to a growing animosity and antipathy.
On our wedding day, no one expects their marriage to
when people rate their priorities, their marital
relationship always ranks in the top 3 or 4.
according to research, couples spend on average less
than 4 minutes per day talking about
issues that do not include schedules and the
As neglect sets in, this lack of attention eats away
at the relationship, slowly eroding the capacity
of the couple to form a substantial relationship.
this point, it is inevitable that issues will
arise that create marital crisis. . .
The issue may be another person, a job change, a shift
in life circumstances or stage. When it comes,
one or the other feels the hopelessness of the
situation, and moves to resolve the crisis
by getting out of the marriage.
Of A Crisis
the crisis is in full swing, it sometimes takes
awhile for the other spouse to respond.
I discovered you can use actually this fact
to create a path back to wholeness.
many other programs treat the way back to
happiness as only one path.
believe there are 8 distinct paths and
each must be dealt with completely differently. What
is helpful at one stage can be destructive, or at
least counterproductive, at another stage.
I have created a unique and different path for each
have been tested and retested, and proven very
successful for my clients. This is not
"pie-in-the-sky" theory. It is tried, tested,
is critical you know which stage you are in
before you begin making changes.
is entirely possible to do the right thing at
the wrong time and cause more problems.
need to know EXACTLY which stage of crisis you
are facing. Only then, can you begin the
healing process. Otherwise, it is probable you
will inflict further damage on your relationship.
beginnings of a crisis (neglect, lack of
understanding, etc.) can quickly spin into a
crisis that puts the entire marriage at risk. . .
this point, the trajectory of the relationship
can become unpredictable.
marriage can fall apart in a million ways.
the path back is predictable.
marriage only recovers in one, predictable way. .
. there is only one path back. The specific
steps on that path may vary (depending on the
stage) but the "way back" is the same.
a map on a trip. You may start from different
places, different distances, but you are still going
to take the roads that lead to the Interstate that
leads to your destination. You only need to know
the path from where you are.
the emphasis of my
work. . . the path back.
have isolated the path back from the verge of
destruction. . . all of the way to full recovery of
can't just take the relationship back to "where
it used to be." This is not enough.
cannot simply get back to where they were when
the marriage got in trouble. The marriage
always had the beginnings of a crisis.
it needs to get to a place where the marriage is
insulated against any future crisis.
an "average" marriage isn't enough. . . you want
and need an exceptional marriage!
not just about avoiding divorce. . . it's about
creating the marriage relationship of
your secret dreams. . .
not enough to avoid divorce.
wants to be in a "mediocre" marriage
couples believe that their marital problems mean
that they are destined to , at best, have
an "okay" marriage.
could not be further from the truth. You don't
have to settle for anything less than the
marriage relationship of your dreams!
my experience, your current marriage crisis can
be the catalyst for "a new beginning" that will make
your marriage stronger and better
than it has ever been.
fact, this is my true goal.
feel satisfied unless as many couples as possible are
experiencing everything that they always
expected from marriage.
to average is not good enough.
have helped hundreds of couples to rescue and
transform their marriages and, I want to help
thousands more to create exceptional marriages!
is why I recently sat down and wrote a new Marriage
Saving System. . .
I said earlier in this letter, I was shocked to
see that there were so many (virtually) useless
"save your marriage" guides offered online.
system, most of these "guides" are written by
ghost writers that are hiding behind a
pretty picture. I am a "real, live" person that
you can actually contact (see the bottom of this
the guides written by actual professionals are,
for the most part, based on tired, old and
ineffective "traditional" theories of counseling that
only achieve 20% effectiveness. . . . when used in
person, in a therapist’s office!
felt as if I had to make available the unique,
different and (most importantly) effective
secrets that I had discovered in my practice.
goal is to save as many marriages as possible.
are, you will probably not have the opportunity
to visit me, in person.
I can still provide you with the information and
the assistance you need to really start saving your
marriage. . . through Save The Marriage.
through the Save The Marriage System , we
can save your marriage!
The Marriage will give you an understanding of
what happened to your marriage, how to save it,
and how to start creating the marriage of your dreams.
will benefit from my, nearly, twenty years of
working with clients, in person, and
literally, thousands of couples in various
Don't expect hundreds of pages that just reiterate
what everyone else has already said.
I have made the ideas and information readable
and easily understood. No "psycho -babble"
here, just the facts, ideas, and actions you need
to save your marriage. I will tell you what went
wrong, what to do to change it, and how to do it.
Starting tonight. . . in fact, in the next 10
minutes, you can start saving your marriage
and moving toward the marriage relationship you always
you imagine how wonderful it feel to, finally,
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of love, joy and contentment?
You don’t have to imagine it. . . because, with the
secrets and strategies you will find with the Save
The Marriage System, you will be solidly on the
path from marital frustration to marital bliss!
take my word for it...
A small sample of
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Others Are Saying:
a few of the hundreds of notes
provided to us, all telling us
thing, that while individual
have been reading the first few
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relieved to find such a terrific
really fits with the direction
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in the very first
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My relationship with my husband
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thank you, thank you thank
41 years old and my husband has
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the initial shock wore off and I
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had to wing it with only
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Results may vary.
There are many variables in
each situation. The exact
response of your spouse can change
the outcome, as well as your
willingness to implement the
information. Not even the
best of information will help
unless the information is
Some Of What You'll Discover...
Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis
The "real" secrets
to a healthy, stable, loving marriage.
to assess the stage of your crisis (there are
to address any stage of a crisis and turn
do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save
"hard work" on the relationship isn't always the
marriage counseling can be dangerous to your
"low mood therapy" is destined for failure and
how "high mood relating" makes the
to move beyond emotions and take action!
to find the North Star of your relationship,
and why it matters.
true intimacy is a lot closer than you think--and
how to get there!
TIE Elements of Communication" are, and how
they can transform your communication.
to change the momentum of a relationship,
the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can
transform your relationship.
arguing is a waste of time -- and the amazingly
simple secret to get around it.
to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
power is so destructive to
relationships and how to change it.
to deal with problems involving sex or money.
anger and resentment are so dangerous, and what
to do about it , regardless of whether you or
your spouse is angry or resentful
to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum
leaps!) in the relationship.
much more about how to transform your relationship.
to begin saving your marriage
beginning in less than an hour, maybe in less
than 10 minutes!
how to have the marriage of your dreams .
What you have seen in
this letter is only a small fraction of what
you will find in this book.
powerful Save The Marriage System has
several modules, all working together to help you
save your marriage, from beginning to
end. Each builds on the other!
this system is only offered in an electronic,
downloadable format, you can begin your journey
of marital happiness and fulfillment immediately.
. . even if it's 2 AM in the morning!
Plus, you never have to worry about facing the
lady at the register in the book store. Your purchase
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And, because you
don't have to pay for printing or shipping,
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you need to ACT NOW!
Let me tell you why
you need to act now: The longer you go without
taking action, the lower your chances to save your
You see, marriages in
crisis are not static. If they are not
improving, they are worsening. Only appropriate
action can reverse this. Please, take action
You can think
about it like a commercial:
Cost of an hour of
therapy: $60 to $150 (multiply that times
100, the number of sessions in 2 years of therapy
($6,000 to $15,000 total).
Cost of an average
divorce: $30,000 (not to mention the
ongoing losses and emotional toil).
Cost of a great
me tell you what is included in the Save
The Marriage System:
'Top Five Things NOT To Do
Your Partner Wants Out' Report
partner has told you that they
"want out," you must read
is the starting point in the
process, so that you do not
continue to do damage to your
"natural" reactions during
this critical stage of your
marriage crisis are,
report will help you to avoid
the top 5 mistakes that most
people make in this situation.
the wrong decision during
this stage could make things
Guide To Saving Your
taken my Stage Of Crisis Diagnosis
and converted it into a very
powerful module that will help you
to establish EXACTLY which
stage of crisis your marriage is
will then prescribe a path
to recovery based on that
report will make your efforts
will be the next stop in your
marriage recovery, so that you
have a “roadmap” to use in your
The Marriage Core Component
is the core of the
system. You will find section
after section telling you the real
secret of marriage, what gets in
the way, and how to move your
marriage toward what you want.
results of my research,
experiments and testing are here
for you to discover. All you
have to do is read, complete the
exercises, and apply it to your
marriage. The rest takes care
is the third module because the
first module gets you out of
harm’s way, the second module gets
you moving toward recover, then
this module helps you understand
why your marriage was failing and
treats the root cause, not just
Guide To Saving Your Marriage
to have a Step-By-Step
Guide on rebuilding your marriage?
This is IT! Learn exactly
what steps I use when I am coaching my
method has worked time and again in
helping people to restore their
relationship. One step at a
time! And I can teach it to you
very quickly, especially when you
already have the information provided
module will also teach you about the
advice you need to avoid! Let me
give you some quick coaching to get
you moving in the RIGHT direction to
avoid more damage.
can follow this advice, and as long as
your spouse allows at least a little
communication, this will work! I
also include a bonus exercise that
really gets things moving, once you
have accomplished the reconnect.
And I'll even tell you about
separations, and what the results
REALLY are with separations.
four modules create the powerful Save The
Marriage System. It is a complete
path to recovering and saving your marriage,
regardless of the situation now.
can only get the modules as a unit, since each builds
on the other, creating a synergy that will
overcome difficulties you may be having.
system is designed to change your understanding of
marriage , and especially your understanding of
the problems. Here’s why: if you just keep
thinking about things the way you have, you will only
stay where you have been -- stuck and going
down! Albert Einstein said “We can't solve
problems by using the same kind of thinking we used
when we created them.”
me help you change your thinking and save your
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With A MidLife Marriage Crisis
MidLife Crisis can become a
Marriage Crisis. In this
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you are in the midst of a mid-life
crisis yourself, you need to
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From An Affair
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Rules For Fair Fighting
is designed to give you instant
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